Posts tagged ‘friendship’

The kind of friend and mother I want to be

By Monica Brand, 9 February, 2009, 3 Comments

It’s obvious this video is about friendship. The loyal, loving relationship between two unlikely creatures. I was going to share how this is the kind of friend I want to be, but the more I think about it, I realize it’s not only about being a good friend.

It’s also about mothering.

There is a part in this video when it’s clear how the much larger, physically dominate one could crush the other, yet does not. I think about how in my own life, when I could’ve chosen gentleness and compassion, yet I spiritually, mentally squashed the weaker one, my own little one due to anger, frustration and that ugliness within we call sin.

I’m ashamed to admit it, but I will, if it helps another mother.

May we as mothers withhold the ability to crush those we love.


HT: a homeschooling mom and friend without a blog for linking, or I would.

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The friendships of women

By Monica Brand, 11 December, 2008, 1 Comment

Friendship is a reoccurring theme with me.

I have this post. And this. All about how we need each other, especially those of us home with our children day-after-day.

We need to lift each other up. Encourage and love.

That’s what this video is about, the need we have for each other. And the power in true friendship.

Watch it, then go be a good friend.


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The Mentoring Project with author Don Miller

By Monica Brand, 25 October, 2008, No Comment

Any willing grown-up can be a mentor. This video focuses on fatherless boys, but don’t let that stop you from reaching out to the young girls in your life. I’ve mentored girls at church without realizing I was “mentoring” them. I was just trying to be their friend.


And for those of you non-book readers *shudder* with no clue as to the identity of Donald Miller, I’ll link to his MEMOIR and blog.

Oh, Monica, you didn’t.

Oh, yeah. I did.

Memoir. Memoir. Yummy memoirs!

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Blogging community: MyBlogLog

By Monica Brand, 25 August, 2008, 10 Comments

Join My Community at MyBloglog!

Help a girl out, will ya? I just joined MyBlogLog this past weekend and desperately need folks to fill up that new widget on the bottom right of the screen (RSS friends, come over to see what I’m talking about). Right now I only have two blogger friends signed on, making my widget look sparce. It looks weird, all that black space with no faces looking back at me. Or off to one side, as Lynn is doing.

And perchance you have no idea what MyBlogLog is – here is the link to educate yourself. It seems like a fun and easy way to foster community at your blog. If you are on MyBlogLog, join my community and I’ll return the favor. Thank you!

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Mommyblogger in freak firework accident

By Monica Brand, 5 July, 2008, 2 Comments

Time to rally the mommyblogger troops again. Jenny from What’s that Smell? needs our prayers and well wishes. Follow the link to read the story. Make sure to leave a comment for her and her community of blogger mamas.

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An ending

By Monica Brand, 9 May, 2008, 2 Comments

My first year in Community Bible Study is over. I enjoyed it, my kids loved it. We all made friends that will last for years, Lord willing. So you can imagine my surprise when the leadership announced Thursday that the class would not continue in the fall.

Why? No proper teaching director, declining attendance, and the church where the group met for years, could no longer play host, I was told.

I have yet to tell my kiddos.

There is another group that meets just a bit north of me, but from what I hear, the home schooler’s class is difficult to get into (with a waiting list – that should tell you something!) I’ve sent in the registration, so we’ll see what happens.

Next Thursday is our “share day,” when we gather for brunch and look back at our year together. There were tears the other day; I’m sure there will more sadness next week.

I’m really bummed about this, to be honest with you. I learned so much about those neglected Old Testament books, prophets and stories that we Christians tend to just skim over because it’s the old part of the story, know what I mean?

But what I’ve learned about obedience and faithfulness and how not to treat our relationship with God. Dang, I’m gonna miss this group of ladies. This is definitely one of those “Why, God?” moments.

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